Our online community is a lifeline of support where we delve into all things trauma related such as toxic thinking, abuse awareness, boundaries, self-care & soul-care, with practical ways to bring about healing your mind, body, and soul.
Encouraging women of faith to RISE Up from Betrayal Trauma to find Hope & Healing.
She Will Rise Strong
You've tried to be everything he wanted you to be in the relationship including meeting his desires in the bedroom, while dying on the inside. . . because it is understood that if he is not satisfied at home he will get it elsewhere. . .OR. . .maybe it's the opposite. . . he wants nothing to do with you and you're feeling so alone, rejected, and unloved.
Tried to meet his needs
You've sought wise counsel and have been to marriage counseling. . . only to walk out even more heavy hearted with a list of things that YOU need to do more of, or to do better. You leave feeling so confused because somehow YOU are the problem. . .YOU need to be more forgiving and respectful, YOU need to lose weight, keep the house cleaner, make better dinners, discipline the children more consistently, and of course save energy for your husband each night to meet his sexual needs and desires.
Sought wise counsel...
You've met with your pastor. . .and your husband seems so repentant with tears flowing, but you are confused and your heart is shattered. You don't feel safe and are so angry that he has betrayed you and your marriage vows. You've prayed daily for your husband and have worked diligently to honor and respect him and even to forgive him. . .yet nothing seems to be changing. Actually, it seems to be getting worse.
You've tried to forgive & forget
You've done all you know to do...
• I believe that through all the hurt, trauma, and tears, that God gives us strength, and courage to rise strong. He promises to give beauty for ashes, and to bind up the brokenhearted.
• Even though you have been hurt deeply. . . you have loved deeply and as you heal. . . YOU will shine!
Beautiful hearts don't just happen. . .and you, my dear, are going to show the world just how beautiful He made you to be!
• Yes, YOU Were Made To Shine!
Whenever you're ready. . .I believe you can heal, you can be happy, you can find peace, & you can find yourself again!
This can be you...
- Shawna B
Do you want to be in a group with amazing women that are working on healing & are so supportive of each other? There is so much truth, love, & real friendships being made. Thank you, Stella, for creating a safe place for us all to find hope & healing!
The best choice I made to find my way to peace & freedom!
- Noelle S
Stella gets what it is like to feel so afraid and stuck. She never told me what to do but helped me dig deep and find the courage to move forward...and to be ME!
I am so grateful for all that Stella helped me to become. I believe her now when she says "you were made to shine!"
• Schedule an individual coaching session with Stella to help guide you toward Clarity, Confidence, and Courage.
• There are only a few sessions each week and they tend to fill up quickly.
Clearing the fog, facing your fears, & finding freedom
Individual Coaching
A private online Sisterhood
Your lifeline of support!
• When you have experienced a gradual erosion of your sense of self-worth and abilities, as well as, a loss of trust in yourself, when you can't imagine surviving on your own, and you feel like you're not enough and yet also too much. . .know that those are lies and that there is healing work to be done,
• She Will Rising Strong Sisterhood is an online community lifeline of support where we delve into all things trauma related such as toxic thinking, boundaries, abuse awareness, self-care & soul-care, with practical ways to bring about healing your mind, body, and soul.
She Will Rise Strong
- Heather W
My husband had to step down from ministry. We lost our income & then our marriage fell apart. I needed a soft place to land, unpack all the confusion, & process through my pain. Stella helped me find my way back to me.
Stella helped me find my voice & know my worth
- Lori E
This has been the most difficult time in my life. My heart was shattered & I had no hope of healing let alone finding joy. I can't say enough about Stella & how safe & supportive the group has been in helping me gain clarity & heal.
I was devastated & ashamed.
I didn't have anyone to confide in about such private things
Do you still have questions? Don't hesitate to reach out!
My favorite time is when we gather together to pray for each other and our families! Bring your questions, and prayer requests, and lets storm heaven together!
Live Q&A and War Room
Each month we will dive deep into a new topic around trauma, abuse, toxic thinking, boundaries, safety plans, and how to heal. We also have new tools each moth for self-care, and soul-care.
Workshops & Trauma Tools
This is where community is built, and deep friendships are made. The support, encouragement, and no judgement from those who are on the same journey...is absolutely priceless!
Private Community
What all is included, you ask?
What if I don't think my marriage is abusive emotionally, mentally, financially, spiritually...?
What is unique about SHE WILL RISE STRONG Sisterhood?
Do I need to be separated or wanting to divorce to join SHE WILL RISE STRONG?
Is SHE WILL RISE STRONG just an online bible study group with tips on how to be a better wife?
FaQ
What if SHE WILL RISE STRONG is too expensive?
What if I am just so angry and do not even want to forgive my husband?
What if I don't want my payment to be traced by my husband?
What is the cancelation policy?
Absolutely not! That type of thinking “Your husband would not struggle sexually if you were better at _____” is the furthest thing from the truth! Your husband’s sexual issues are NOT because of you! We will delve into the word of God but NOT with the mindset that you need to change so that your husband will remain faithful.
Is SHE WILL RISE STRONG just an online bible study group with tips on how to be a better wife?
Absolutely not! We are here to help you heal and grow. Whether you choose to stay or go is completely up to you. Our goal is to help empower you so that you get to a place where you know that you have a voice and a choice as to how you are to be treated and how you choose to live your life to honor God.
Do I need to be separated or wanting to divorce to join she will rise strong?
If you consider the cost of not getting in a group where you can learn, heal, and grow....staying stuck will take a toll on your mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical health.
She Will Rise Strong compared to a 50 minute therapy session is actually a huge savings. Finding a coach or counselor that is trained in trauma recovery, and understands sexual addiction will run $80 -$150 per session.
Another option would be for you to ask a friend or family member if they would be willing to sponsor you monthly or for a year membership where you get 12 months for the price of 10 months.
What if SHE WILL RISE STRONG is too expensive?
I can totally relate to that! I first sought out help because I saw myself becoming so angry and needed help to figure out how to get myself in check. I didn’t like who I was becoming in response to the pain of betrayal. Please know...you do have every right to be angry! In She Will Rise Strong as a part of your healing journey you will heal, grow stronger, and be empowered so that you can set healthy boundaries. You will find that you will be able to respond in a healthy way rather than react as a crazy, hot mess.
What if I am just so angry and do not even want to forgive my husband?
SHE WILL RISE STRONG membership is $47 per month. You may pay with a credit card or through PayPal. You'll be automatically charged every month on the same day you subscribed. You may unsubscribe at any time. Your payment will show up on your credit card as Stella Haven. If you choose to purchase a one-year membership for $470 you’ll receive a year for the price of 10 months!
What is the cancelation policy?
Are you ready to embrace your healing journey & find the courage & freedom to live your beautiful life?
I know what it is like to feel trapped in a marriage that is falling apart wondering how long you can keep praying for him to change, and trying to figure out what God would have you do.
I get that you never thought that you would be in this place. . .Just know, as long as you’re safe, you can take your time to pray, process, and ask yourself these hard questions.
Only you can make this decision. So, let's get started with these 7 questions and see if you can find some clarity and peace.
7 Questions to Ask Yourself If You’re Wondering How You Can Stay in Your Marriage
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7 Questions to Ask Yourself If You’re Wondering How You Can Stay in Your Marriage
