• I was feeling like I was in a thick fog trying to make sense of all the pain, and lies, wondering if I would ever be able to fully trust my husband again. I was always waiting for the other shoe to drop.
• I read all the marriage books, sought wise counsel, went to marriage counseling, yet my marriage was still coming up empty.
• I had so much brain chaos and felt like I was going crazy at times.
I pressed into my role as Christian homemaker... Hoping, praying, and telling myself that things would get better.
I knew what it was to feel numb, confused, angry, exhausted, and fearful of what the future may hold for my marriage. . .but I was also so busy being a Mom of 9 children, teaching my children how to honor God in all we do. . to all the practical things such as grinding wheat, making wholesome meals, homeschooling, and church. . . So, I chose denial, telling myself my marriage was "good enough" because it was too painful to confront betrayal after betrayal.
I knew marriage would be hard sometimes... But not like this.
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She Will Rise Strong Sisterhood will help you find your way out of the fog and into a life of freedom!
When your husband participates in a secret sexual life, whether it is online, with another person, or in his own thoughts. . .it is not a marital issue. . .it is abuse.
Understand Abuse
Discovering the truth about Betrayal Trauma is an important part of your healing journey.
Know that. . .You are not alone! You can heal! You can find peace! You can find yourself again.
Embrace The Journey
I believe every woman deserves safety, validation, and support as she navigates the difficult journey of healing from Betrayal Trauma.
Know Your Worth
What I believe
Together we will work on gaining the needed tools to RISE up from Betrayal Trauma:
• Restore - Restore your hope and retrain your brain so that you are not stuck in fear, brain fog, and anxiety.
• Identity - Identify and rediscover who you are, what you love to do, and who God says you are.
• Self-care/Soul-care - Learn how to make time for your emotional, mental, physical and spiritual health.
• Empowerment - To know that you have a voice and a choice over your body, your daily life, and your future.
She Will RISE Strong Sisterhood IS YOUR LIFELINE TO FIND COMMUNITY, CLARITY,
HOPE, & HEALING.
Are you asking yourself whether you should stay or go?
Are you wondering if this is as good as it gets. . .or who you can turn to that understands your pain and fears?
I totally get it. I was in that very same place. . .but I found that being a part of a group where I could safely share, and be heard by other women who are walking this same painful journey, was pivotal in my healing.
That is why I have created She Will Rise Strong Sisterhood, an online coaching and supportive community for women.
You also may feel stuck, broken & all alone... That is why we are here... To walk through this together.
I felt trapped. . .but I chose my love. . .and knew I needed to love my choice. Divorce was never an option. Even though for years I had felt all alone in my marriage that was built on his lies, betrayals, and manipulations. When I was pregnant with my 3rd child my safe, little world imploded for the first time.
For more than 2 decades I stood by my husband hoping, praying, and believing he would choose us and do the hard work to get into recovery. . .if only I was a better wife. . .I grew so weary in the waiting, trying to be a Godly, supportive Christian wife, while he was in his own distant, angry, and selfish world of addiction and fantasy.
I was afraid to admit that I was dying on the inside and didn't know how I could stay in my marriage...
There is hope!
I know what it is like to feel trapped in a marriage that is falling apart wondering how long you can keep praying for him to change, and trying to figure out what God would have you do.
I get that you never thought that you would be in this place. . .Just know, as long as you’re safe, you can take your time to pray, process, and ask yourself these hard questions.
Only you can make this decision. So, let's get started with these 7 questions and see if you can find some clarity and peace.
7 Questions to Ask Yourself If You’re Wondering How You Can Stay in Your Marriage
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7 Questions to Ask Yourself If You’re Wondering How You Can Stay in Your Marriage
