Encouraging women of faith to RISE up from Betrayal Trauma to find Hope & Healing after abuse.

What if you had a safe place to make connections with other women walking this same journey? 

...imagine gaining clarity and the self-confidence to step into the person that God has made you to be and to have the confidence to not be afraid of what the future may hold. 

...and what if you were able to make real friendships with other women who truly get it and have your back?

Imagine...

What if there was a way to rise up from feeling overwhelmed, heal your broken heart, and step back into a joy filled life...

- Michelle T.

I don't know where I would be if it wasn't for this group...a true answer to my prayers! I spent decades keeping my husband's sex addiction a secret trying to stuff the pain...until I couldn't any longer.  

So grateful to Stella for her compassion & wisdom in helping me navigate through all the pain.

- Jennie B.

She's calm, caring, and helps clarify. If I'm feeling "stuck" I know I can go to her for help in moving past whatever is blocking me. 

If you need a safe space & someone who will listen, Stella is your person. 

I felt like something was wrong with me because I struggled to forgive and trust my husband after his repeated betrayals. I wanted to move forward but my heart was shattered.
I wondered if I would ever feel safe again let alone cherished in my marriage.  Sound familiar?

I'm a homeschooling mom of 9 seeking to honor God in all I do...but I was stuck in a fog of confusion & hurt in an abusive marriage.

Hey! I'm Stella

Schedule an individual coaching session with Stella to help guide you toward clarity, confidence, and courage.
There are only a few sessions each week and they tend to fill up quickly.

Individual Coaching Sessions

Whether you are married, separated, or divorced you're welcome as we work on healing our heart, retraining our brain, and restoring our health.

She Will Rise Strong Sisterhood

Services

As a Christian wife and Mom we can lose our sense of self as we focus outward and serve everyone else. Yet, when we are in an abusive marriage we oftentimes experience this gradual erosion of our sense of self-worth. We believe we are inadequate and we begin to lose trust in ourselves. It causes us to believe that we can't make it on our own because we believe  we're not enough
and yet at the same time are too much.  

I don't even know who I am anymore...

There was a time when I wished I could somehow just run away from, or sleep away all the pain. I wondered if my husband ever truly loved me, or if he would ever get into real recovery. I didn't even know that I was in an abusive marriage. I also did not believe that it was biblical for me to have autonomy over my own body let alone to stand up for myself and say NO to my husband about anything. My intuition had been silenced and I no longer was the brave, and capable woman I once was when we first married.

Ready to Rise Strong?

It doesn't have to be this way. You can be a Godly Christian woman AND reclaim your life after betrayal trauma. I've been through it and I'm here to help. 

Do you feel this way?

I know what it is like to feel trapped in a marriage that is falling apart wondering how long you can keep praying for him to change, and trying to figure out what God would have you do.

I get that you never thought that you would be in this place. . .Just know, as long as you’re safe, you can take your time to pray, process, and ask yourself these hard questions. 

Only you can make this decision. So, let's get started with these 7 questions and see if you can find some clarity and peace.

7 Questions to Ask Yourself If You’re Wondering How You Can Stay in Your Marriage 

Free Gift

 she was resilient enough to come back stronger from anything that she would endure. 

Her harmony came not through the complete absence of chaos, but in the realization that

.

Let's find you some peace and clarity around a scary, difficult decision that you probably thought you'd never consider.

7 Questions to Ask Yourself If You’re Wondering How You Can Stay in Your Marriage